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Are you Codependent?

Are you Codependent?

Your Finest Life
begins when….
Do you ever wonder why some people seem to have it all with ease and others, well not so much?
The one word answer is codependency. We live in a codependent society. At some level, we are all contributing to it. We are either an addict or the enabler of the addict, even if at some small degree. Most of us don’t even realize we are (codependent) simply because we grew up with it and we think it’s normal. It’s actually quite natural for most of us.
Being codependent means to be dependent on others, a substance and/or a process.
Do you feel the need to be needed?
Do you put others in front of your own needs?
Do you need to have control?
Do you get resentful when things don’t go your way?
Do you question your spirituality?
Do you find yourself avoiding  reality?
Do you have intimacy challenges?
Do you feel “victim” to unfortunate circumstances?
We have all been there, if not still there….
Codependency is often thought as a relationship problem. It IS in fact a relationship problem, but the relationship that is the problem is NOT the relationship you have with others; the relationship problem is with you.
You are simply reflecting your issues onto others making it appear to be an outside relationship challenge.
The truth is that it’s really an inside issue. We all have it to some degree. The less we have it, the better our lives will be. This is what separates the rich from the poor, the healthy from the sick, the abundant lifestyle from the scarcity lifestyle. Yes, it comes down to the amount of codependency that exists. Less will give you more.
Inner shame is usually the culprit. We all have shame to some degree. Shame is a lie someone told you about yourself that left you feeling unloved and worth little. This often occurred in the earlier years of our childhoods. Many times we have forgotten  these lies and have been denying them ever since.
Know that it is still there and that it needs to be dealt with. Work on eliminating the shame (you now place on yourself) by loving yourself more and you are off to a great start in becoming the opposite of codependency, interdependence.
Living with interdependence is the lifestyle of the individuals living with purpose, passion and fulfillment.
Isn’t this great news!? To know that what we are on the inside manifests what happens in our reality. This we can control! This we can change!  We can change being a victim to becoming a victor simply by redirecting our thoughts to loving ourselves more. ” I lose becomes ” I win”.
Once I heard this great information, I took shame by the horns and confronted it head on. I have taken a lot of time to love myself more and the result is that I have more energy to love others, even more!
Please join me on working on our inner issues.
It is a fascinating journey that is well worth the ride.
Thank you for reading and please share if you feel that it will help others.
Here’s to loving yourself so that you love others more !!

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